When the fights break down and the tears fall . . .

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I destruct relationships. I cause grieving and mourning. I cause depression, rage, eating disorders and many other sad things. I cause divorces and broken friendships. I create wars. I even break apart who you want to be into the result of me. I am anger, fighting, and sin.

All my life I've been called an encourager. Someone who makes others day, or as my dad calls it "a walking greeting card". So whenever there is a fight with my friends, family, or even just watching others fight makes me sick to my stomach and my heart grieve.
Fighting brings destruction, tears, and sorrow. It breaks your self confidence, your relationships and even the people around yous relationship. When we fight, it creates a barrier between you and God, and that is exactly what Satan wants. Because simply if we want to follow God completely, we wouldn't have any reason to fight. In Galatians, Paul writes about the Fruits of the Spirit: love, joy, patience, self-control,ect. When we fight and rip each other apart, that is creating a weed in the fruits that should be harvesting.

The good thing about this is that there are ways to change this. God says that as far as the East goes to the West He'll cleanse of our sins. He'll break down that barrier and cause healing hearts instead of destruction. As long as He is in the center of your relationships and everything we do, we won't need to fight.. because God's Gentle Hand is helping us with self-control and patience. Think of it like this: when I was younger, me and my little brother were obsessed with Bob the Builder. Like seriously he had mad building and fixing skills. No matter how bad things seem to be he repaired things. Well in this case God is the fixer of all our broken relationships. He'll help us heal our differences, our stinging words, and deathly actions. Because God gives a Renewed Attitude, we can change. No matter how bad your fight may seem, God will forgive and heal you.

He repairs relationships. He heals broken hearts and gives rest to the weary. He knew us before we were born and loved us from the beginning of time. He sent His Son to die and suffer and be bloody and bruised and humiliated just for us. Just because of His Ultimate Love for us. He causes love instead of hate. He puts the "happily" in happily ever after. No matter how bad things seem and it seems like you have no where to turn and your confused, He guides us, tells us its okay, and gives us the wisdom and understanding to repair, forgive, and fix our relationships. He is God, our Redeemer and Heavenly Father.

My prayer is that we repair all our relationships and restart them with God in the center, first and foremost. My prayer is that we show love instead of hate, and never give up when life goes hard. Remember that even in the stormiest of relationships, even when the thunder is cracking and the rain is falling down, that there is always a rainbow, God's Covenant, at the end.

With that prayer said, I want to change my relationship to a "Slow Fade" to the assurance that "He'll Come!"